is this not just the cutest couple you've ever seen?

this sweet girl is jane. and today was her 1st birthday party.
her poofy dress made me kind of wish chet was a girl.
this is chet's other friend, beckam.
we tried to get these boys to wrestle. unfortunately, neither of them can move yet...
despite how happy he might look with me in this picture, chet has turned into a total daddy's boy. if matt and i are both playing with chet and matt leaves the room, chet has a melt down. if i leave the room, chet doesn't even notice.

maybe that means matt should stay at home and i should work.
i haven't convinced matt of this yet. but i'm working on it.
he has always liked the song 'mr mom' and i think that is a sign :)
being a stay at home mom is really hard for me. i love chet, but i miss working.
if america would just give me a green card, i would love to have a job.
we sent in the papers to get green cards and in (up to) 9 years we will get them.
isn't that the most ridiculous timeline? i'll be too ancient to work in 9 years..
you know what else would be nice about having a green card?
we could apply for game shows like minute to win it and the amazing race.
matt and i would destroy those shows. easy.