so... i'm pregnant.
it's crazy!
today was the first day that it actually seemed a even little bit real.
we have managed to keep it a secret since we took a pregnancy test back on december 1.
we just told our families the exciting news today.
we didn't plan on keeping it a secret so long, but we just went for our first check up today.
and we didn't want to make any announcements before we knew everything was going smoothly.
which everything is. the baby is healthy as can be :)
so here are the details:
i am 18 weeks along.
the due date is august 10. (our 5 year anniversary.. how romantic!)
our baby is measuring in the 62nd percentile for it's gestation.
it's head is big. (no surprise there. chet's is still big.)
and... drum roll please...
it's a boy!
even though it was just our first check up today, we were far enough along to find out what we are having.
we aren't the kind of couple that can wait, so we were all over that.
AS SOON AS the nurse started the ultrasound she laughed and said 'well, it's a boy!'
haha both of our boys have been very willing to show off their manhood!
{here is the proof! this shows his two legs with his boy part in the middle.. if you couldn't tell.}
we were both expecting - and maybe a little bit hoping for - a girl just because we are dying to see what our daughter would be like.
but we are honestly so thrilled that it is a boy.
chet will love having a little brother to hang with.
and, since we have a ridiculous amount of boy stuff, this will be more kind to our poor student budget!
i think the biggest stress about it being a boy is that we have to come up with another boy name. shoot!
boy names are so tricky.
it took us almost 2 days after chet was born to decide on his handsome little name.
hopefully we are more prepared the second time around. but.. no promises.
in case you are wondering if this pregnancy was planned. it was.
we would ideally like to have the baby in canada so we planned to be due during matt's semester break this summer (july 21-sept 10).
and we are due august 10.
impressed by our accuracy?! haha. we are!
unfortunately, we forgot to take into account that i started into labor 10 weeks early with chet.
soo... our plan may not pan out as perfectly as we had hoped. oops.
we have been trying to understand health care and insurance here in america.
it is really hard to wrap your head around when you are used to the canadian way.
we didn't have to pay one cent of chet's $100,000.00 NICU bill.
so i feel like it is a total scam that we might have to pay to have this baby.
labor is one experience i am definitely not thrilled about paying to go through!
it's so painful.. and icky..
oh well, there isn't a whole lot we can do now.
anyways... back to the pregnancy.
it's been pretty easy.
i haven't been sick. i have no cravings. no heart burn.. yet.
i do get super dizzy a lot.
i got really light-headed when i was pregnant with chet too.
but i passed out a lot during that pregnancy, and i haven't done that yet with this one.
thank goodness. passing out is super embarrassing.
other then dizziness, my worst symptom would be the messy state of my emotions.
poor matt! good thing he is one of the most patient people i know.
i haven't felt the baby yet, i haven't gained any weight, and i don't look pregnant.
so, before the ultrasound today, matt and i both had a hard time believing any of this was real.
when i saw the baby doing somersaults in my belly today i was kind of sad that i haven't felt him yet. i felt like a bad mom!
i thought i would be a pro this time around. guess not.
we have been trying to explain to chet that there is baby in my tummy for months. but he doesn't get it at all!
i'm not sure he will understand until the baby is here.
we really think chet is going to be a great big brother.
he loves babies. and he is so gentle with them.
he is also very good at sharing, he is super helpful, and it really concerns him when he sees other kids crying.
he has such a sweet little heart.
half of me is excited to see him as a big brother, but the other half of me is sad.
i wish that he could be my sweet baby forever.
i love that he has matt's and my undivided attention for now. and we love giving it to him.
we will just have to treasure the next few months of pure chet-time before baby number 2 makes his appearance.
and before we fall madly in love with him too!
let the countdown begin..
less then 22 weeks until our family gets even better!